Marriage is not always easy. It stretches us, tests us, and exposes our weaknesses. Yet it is also one of God’s greatest gifts, designed to refine us and reflect His love. This Thanksgiving, let’s pause to thank Him for the gift of our spouse and the covenant we share.

Gratitude in the Everyday

It’s easy to be thankful for the big moments—milestones, anniversaries, answered prayers. But much of marriage is built in the everyday: the morning coffee made without asking, the quick hug before work, the shared laugh at the dinner table. Gratitude grows when we recognize these small daily acts as gifts of love.

Gratitude in the Challenges

Scripture reminds us, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Even the challenges in marriage are opportunities to grow in patience, forgiveness, and humility. When we choose gratitude in the midst of trials, God uses those moments to strengthen our bond and deepen our faith.

Gratitude for God’s Design

Marriage is more than companionship—it’s a reflection of Christ’s love for His church (Ephesians 5:25). When a husband and wife love, serve, and forgive one another, they paint a picture of the gospel. This truth gives us reason to be deeply thankful, because it means our marriage has eternal significance.

A Thanksgiving Prayer

This Thanksgiving, let’s pray:
“Lord, thank You for the gift of marriage. Thank You for my spouse, for the joys we share, the lessons we’ve learned, and the ways You are shaping us. Help me to see my spouse as a blessing, not a burden, and to cultivate gratitude every day. May our marriage bring glory to You.”

As you gather around the table this year, take a moment to look across at your spouse with fresh eyes of gratitude. Marriage is not perfect, but it is a gift. And when we give thanks for it, we find new strength to keep building, together, on the foundation of God’s love.